Are you a sexy, intelligent, flirtatious person with a job & heaps to offer, but just never seem to get past the initial date? Or are you shy & sensitive with loads of love to give but no one to give it to? Perhaps you are a randy cougar with dozens of cubs to play with but no one permanent to curl up with
If you are looking for something more than a one-night affair you are not alone.
“What is wrong with me?” they ask themselves. Relationship unhappiness has become so pandemic that even the experts are trying to put their finger on why this is so.
The latest research has shown that the biggest contributing factor is gender role confusion.
Females just do not need men to look after them anymore.
For the guys, this “not being needed” has left them confused as to what they actually have to offer. Men end up trying to be the superficial things that women want at the expense of developing a real intimate connection.
It is easy to lose sight of the fact that the “new age” concept of a self sufficient relationship is only about 40 years old.
Females may want to succeed in business, be professional wrestlers and raise children as well but millions of years of human conditioning cannot be wrong. The heart still goes aflutter when you feel protected and looked after. Every part of a male still tingles when she yields to his genuine strength.
In our stance on equal rights we have completely lost the true essence of a lasting attraction. That is, complementary opposites. This does not mean being actual opposites. This means providing for your partner what they cannot provide for them selves.
Male “provider and protector” energy meets the female “nurture and raise” energy. Society has taught us to suppress our natural feminine or masculine and to be somewhere in the center. This is fine if you run a business but not so great if you want to convine someone of your importance as a partner.
What reason do two people have to remain in a relationship if they have nothing to receive or give beyond a superficial neediness.
Long term relationships are made by people who complement each other at a very core level. At our very core level is our natural essence of masculine and feminine.
Sometimes it can be quite beneficial to forget about being politically correct and start to explore these age old powers of energy. Accept the yin and the yang and allow the feeling of it working for you.
How to explore the masculine & feminine.
1- Sex is an ideal place to start exploring each others dominant and submissive side.
2- We all possess both feminine and masculine. On occasion, a person who shows one aspect more than the other in fact craves a connection with the less prominent side. Take the time to connect with all of the sides.
3- Allow the other person to feel as if they meet your needs even if you can do it yourself. It is one thing to be independent but it blocks the other person feeling needed.
4- Relationships will get dull because of routines. He does this while she goes about that. This is why it is important to connect with both sides of a person’s male & female energy. Opening yourself up to both aspects will bring a new freshness to the table.
5- Give a more rounded image of yourself from the beginning. Allow the person to see the variety of energy that you can offer and the multitude of ways that you are able to complement their life. Then allow them the opportunity to give the same to you.
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