BODY LANGUAGE – WHAT EVERY MAN SHOULD KNOW!
Woman may be the fairer sex, loving . sexy, dedicated, impulsive, challenging, confident , and apparently a little needy at times. Perhaps a few more things you can think of also, but guys do you really know us?
Research shows that the silence of a woman is more dangerous than a charging Cougar. She can rocket a man’s body and soul without physically touching him .
Women have the advantage of - intuition, manipulation, inner strength and perseverance. Man will never know the true depts. of - what keeps a woman one step ahead, without moving a single limb.
Take D I Y for instance. As you impulsively roll up your sleeves and decide to take action, by putting up that long awaited ‘shelf, to please her’. You appear enthusiastic to the children or onlookers, but your body language is displaying something else. ( “Why me? It’s the weekend! anything for a quiet life”)
After all your the man of the house, yes you will oblige your partner and grudgingly rescue your Tool box from your 9 to 5 Van. With a mass of tools strewn around the floor and worktop, you will accurately align your Spirit level and Tape measure, proceeding with your purring Drill – the project is complete. After all a man has to exhibit his precious tools , so thoughtfully chosen as birthday and Christmas gifts by his dearly beloved. Good man! You have just set in motion the master-key to a night of hot passion. But do you realise Women rarely intent to call in the outside trades man, this is a last resort to – Motivate you and get your Commitment levels soaring.
The Morning Kiss: How many of you guys leave your partner sleeping peacefully ( you think) each morning, as you quietly slip off to work?
Well stop right now!
Regardless of time commitment, or frosted windscreen, always kiss you lady before you depart. ( for many it may be your last kiss, as so many loose their lives en route or during the day).
Further- more that kiss is the special chemistry, the energetic force to keep a woman focused when encountering challenges during the day. Even when the kids get too much, work or friend’s demands reach a peak. That kiss stays as fresh as the morning dew. This little action by you creates a continuous glowing emotion within woman. Keeping her furnace burning with passion .
Fear: For many men fear is a regular visitor to your love zone. Woman’s intuition, not unlike that of the ” Queen Bee” is always on alert, and can sense a man’s fear, even before he is aware of it. That work place fling – Cheating on your healthy eating plan –gambling- absentee alcoholic, contribute to fear. If you are hiding it from your partner. Your woman will instinctively know something is up and will immediately detach from you.
Unconscious Body Language: The female is born with the ability to Master- task, as she matures she. Becomes proficient in reading body language in a silent mode. Not complicated really!
Especially the body language of her man. A woman can cook a Cordon Blu meal and entertain her guests at the same time. (Have you ever noticed ?) She can also read a book and tune into your T.V. programme , thus- censoring what you are watching, Right!
As you are laying beside her on the Beach and you occasionally raise your head for comfort and to adjust you shades, ‘just to get a sneaky peek at Barbie’ in the skimpy bikini nearby, or glance at those luscious tanned legs gritting past on the warm crunchy sand.
Oh boy! wonderful! You are in heaven., so you may think. Watch out! Your woman is aware of your every move, she can read your mind babe. She disarms you immediately, un-settling you from your vantage point in a calculated stroke of genius, she invites you, in a strict tone to join her for a swim. Yanks you by the arm, embarrassingly slaps you across the back, in her effort to brush sand off your body. Displaying you over sizes 44″ waistline, beer belly and pimply back . You woman’s message to your beach audience is- hands off – he’s no oil-painting, but he’s mine, and her message to you is – ” grow up you fool! They’re window shopping not buying.
SextJ Sex text is wonderful and enjoyable if used in the right manner, it increases passion, inhibits emotional gestures and is fun. One can say words in text – that they wouldn’t dream of saying , even after downing a bottle of Vodka. Remember guys – Sex text outside your relationship can have undesirable consequences. Believe me I am a woman! Your mobile phone is always a tempting prey for the female predator. When you receive that ‘Beep’ late at night, this arouses emotional silence in your woman. She is on overdrive as you check the text quickly stare into space and say with a sigh, “workmate again -not important” those very words are your death knell. Another instance is when you’re out for a cosy candlelit romantic dinner date – just as your settling into a delicious main course, you phone rings out in a squeaky musical tone, you stare at the screen in horror!, and answer reluctantly , ” Sorry wrong number” you cast a cold gaze across the soft candle flame into the dilated pupils of your good patient lady., as you dive the phone into your pocket and continue to eat you main-courses with a dessert spoon. That’s your final crunch, From this moment on , you lady has no other focus in life ,other than the satisfying moment , when you are happily reading the paper in the loo ,and she is sitting on the bed with your phone and ‘messages received’ box open .
Take care guys – have been warned. ‘Man is no match for woman -especially when he ignites her flame’.
Freelance Journalist, (Accredited to Internaional News Syndicate) Author of Self help Magazine Articles, First book due out in early summer.
